tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27163849.post1416094567393471938..comments2024-01-15T04:16:18.484-06:00Comments on Debbie Does Duluth: Trust MeDebbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00704916453841215332noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27163849.post-7697070455467699132009-07-17T13:04:53.125-05:002009-07-17T13:04:53.125-05:00Addendum: Universe whacked me a good one again to...Addendum: Universe whacked me a good one again today! And as much as it sucks...I know that it's saving me from walking down that path again...Shellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17392167891073936045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27163849.post-71942599522331783872009-07-17T09:26:57.654-05:002009-07-17T09:26:57.654-05:00I know that I cry because I feel foolish--that is ...I know that I cry because I feel foolish--that is definitely the reason.<br /><br />Strangely, the universe seems to be taking care of me in the "will I ever get involved again?" department--there are no relationships for me to fall into right now. There are some things happening that I WISH would turn into relationships, but the universe is saying "no", and I am glad of that--I'm allowing myself to say that I'm just not ready, rather than being bummed about some guy not being into me. I'm not going to lie--learning about myself and learning the importance of taking care of myself during a time of "forced" aloneness SUCKS. I'm so programmed to take care of SOMEONE, and my children, as teenagers, don't need much beyond food, cash and rides. The big lesson, knowing that I am WORTH taking care of, not only by myself, but also by somebody else, too, is a long, long lesson indeed. I'm learning an awful lot, and a lot of it is awful--I'm such a WIFE! I'm working towards just being a person...Shellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17392167891073936045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27163849.post-73547633305797442362009-07-17T08:35:12.955-05:002009-07-17T08:35:12.955-05:00When you trust again in an intimate relationship, ...When you trust again in an intimate relationship, it is never again to the total surrender of blind trust or surrendering control. There is also compensation of sorts in that you trust yourself. The world has been forever changed, innocence once lost can never return, maturity sets in and you feel 110 years old.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com