How do you know that STBX is not paying his bills?
When the creditors call.
Again and again and again.
I must admit, when you start to tell them that he is a pedophile and his whole prolific story, they definitely start to deviate from their arm twisting scripts.
Does this mean that I win? The creditors are calling him before they have a need to start calling me?
Don't worry, it's a race to the finish line and we'll both get there eventually.